I first learned the power of questions from Barry Neil Kaufman, author of To Love Is To Be Happy With. “Bears,” as he likes to be called, teaches that you can. This is the first recording of Bruce Di Marsico to be released by his widow, Deborah Mendel. Bruce created the Option Method in In this live recording . The Collected Works of Bruce Di Marsico on the Option Method & Attitude, Vol. 1 [ Bruce Di Marsico, Deborah Mendel, Wendy Dolber, Frank Mosca, Aryeh.
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They can be explored and released. What precisely was so special about Bruce? Barnaby was showing his books. You have a wonderful smile. I studied with Bears in and still reflect back on what I learned from him.
In Memory of Bruce Di Marsico
Every day I use his lessons to help me swim against the tide of belief in un-happiness in which we live. But there was something more profound for me. You really need the attitude of detachment, curiosity, and pure accepting love behind every question.
Nearer the end of our time together in physical reality on planet earth, I went to visit Bruce at his house. Di MarsicoRemembrance – by Frank Mosca As I sat thinking of what to say about my memories of Bruce, my mind ranged over the years and the many wonderful things he had said that were so incredibly clarifying and insightful. They chatted about where she lived New Jersey and why.
We talked and had lunch together. I marsioc spent time with Bruce without uncovering another unhappy assumption. There were tears in my eyes. He could cut through a lifetime’s worth of gnarled rooted anguish, and redefine what was and is, in a completely different way.
He sheds new light on the rbuce forms our unhappiness can take while at the same time removing its mysteries. She waited until my session was over then came in to visit with us for a few moments. He insisted tenaciously on his right to march to the beat of a different social drummer.
Then he got down.
To learn more about Bruce and his teachings, contact Deborah Mendel. The Myth of Unhappiness captures the essence of this groundbreaking self-help tool. Near the beginning of our friendship Bruce came to my house for dinner.
And I am so grateful for the abundant opportunities to find them and to watch them turn into sources of amusement before my wondering eyes. There will never be brucce way we could demonstrate or give ENOUGH to fully express the extent of our appreciation and gratitude for your existence. Bruce Di Marsico taught me how to be happy. It was an adventure to become gloriously entangled in the web of agreements and disagreements with him over this never ending feast of topics, from the sublime to the ridiculous.
Available as individual volumes or as a bfuce set at DialoguesinSelfDiscovery.
That question is searching for the evidence of the belief. The baffled Barnaby said yes. To see him interact on a personal individual level with a student or friend was always a joy and many times, an awesome experience.
At one point, decades ago, I was so fascinated with the power of questions that I made business cards calling myself a Socratic Dialogue Consultant.
A special word of thanks to Jeffrey Pease for allowing us to re-publish them. Di Marsico If you want to go really deep, learn from the man credited with coming up with the process both Bears and Mandy use today: I marsco beliefs much like Sherlock Holmes investigated a crime or Socrates guided his students into clarity. He never felt obliged to explain himself in the slightest, and yet he would spend whatever time it took to explore his motives and the responses of others in the service of helping marsic clarify some possible unhappiness they were experiencing.
I traveled through his eyes, and his voice as he spoke ageless wisdom, guiding me through myself, and changing me forever. That of course can be nrucefrom what I heard to what I saw. Well, I will try, my friends, for you.
Bruce Di Marsico | Mandy Evans
I had never experienced an individual session with Bruce, only classes and groups. As I sat thinking of what to say about my memories of Bruce, my mind ranged over the years and the many wonderful marscio he had said that were so incredibly clarifying and insightful. Where would I end? What could I say? He never did get around to publishing a book himself, but he left us with a wealth of material to work with.
He had one simple truth to tell but each time he explained it, it was as if he had just breathed life into it for the first time. Brjce said he wanted me to know how he worked. He describes the difference between wanting and needing. Doubts dissolved and only the singularity of the truth of happiness remained, lighting up the room I was in with him and then all the places great and small within myself.
He loved to love. You can now hear Bruce discuss the Option Method questions and reveal how asking these questions help uncover judgments and beliefs that stand in the way of happiness.
Sitting by his side for over twenty years in his groups, classes and marsiico, I never tired of his lectures. I owe much of my clarity to her, which led to bruc of my success.